Dating 25 year age difference
She feels sorry for the few girls who were clearly older than the others - probably over 30; they definitely aren't getting in.
The 32-year-old meets her two girlfriends at an upscale lounge that they've come to like, mostly because it is never too loud and has a good layout, conducive to meeting new people.
It doesn't hurt that the men who go there are generally older professionals, men who have their shit together and don't drink until they fall down.
They pick a good spot at the bar and order a drink.
I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.
Both women are dressed up and heading out to meet with their respective friends for some drinks. Both are single and want little more than to ultimately find true love.
If she is honest with herself, she sort of expects to meet a guy in New York, though she definitely isn't ready to get married.
She has a career and other aspirations to meet before she is ready to settle down.
They've arrived early so the crowd is still a bit sparse, but this gives them time to actually hang out and talk before anyone else arrives and they get involved in other conversations.
As the 32-year-old orders her drink, she chats with the bartender for a bit, because she knows that even a brief conversation with a stranger (male or female) will get her into a more social mood, which might help later if any men want to talk to her.
She is growing more and more self-conscious and concerned about the fact that she is still single in her thirties.